Friday, July 26, 2013

Relaxed Record Keeping Plan


*Series Intro*

*For the past 6 months or so I have been exploring the ins and outs of Relaxed Homeschooling (RHS) and Unschooling (UnS).  In that time I have come to see that my daughter NEEDS this type of learning and education if she is to be who she is meant to be.  Anything else will not support her full development.  My reason for coming up with any kind of plan at all is twofold. This school year we will be moving to a state in which we will be joining an umbrella school.  So, my task here is to come up with a relaxed plan that will meet the requirements of the umbrella school.  Secondly, a dear friend of mine in state that only requires an attendance record for homeschool statute compliance was accused of educational neglect.  Having never tested her children, and not done much record keeping, it was difficult for her to prove that her children were in deed growing and learning, as they should. So now I am a bit paranoid about the remote possibility of this happening to us. If it ever does, by some fluke chance, I will have this plan to back up our efforts.

I've decided to put our plan into a series of posts. Both as a reference for me in the future and with the hope that it might be of help to other homeschool moms! ;)

See all the entries in the series by clicking HERE*

Relaxed record Keeping Plan – Part Three

I have really been looking forward to sharing this post in this series about our Relaxed Homeschool Plan.  I am a list maker! I love to check boxes.  I think that is one reason why I have fluctuated from schoolish to unschoolish ideas, back and forth over the years.  Gentle schoolish ideas speak to my mind, unschoolish ideas speak to my heart.  My daughter is the exact opposite!  Just this morning, I asked her what her plan is for today.  She laughed and said, “Plan, don’t you know me at all?” Still laughing.  Maybe you can relate?

Below is my plan for record keeping that satisfies my need to check boxes, her need for freedom, and the requirements of our umbrella school.

Our Umbrella School Requires

1.    Report of number of school days twice a year. We must have a total of 180 days each school year (July to June), but we are not required keep an attendance record. Since everyday is a learning day, that’s no problem.

2.    Provide an educational plan that includes one resource per subject.  This is easy.  We have books on every subject in our house.

3.    Report grades for each subject twice per year.  For now, I can use Pass/Fail if I want, or letter grades.  Letter grades are easier than you think.  I will give all A’s.  Here’s why.
Schools use grades to rank students and to rate how much of the required material is mastered.  I have no one to rank my daughter against.  We do not have required material.  She is pursuing her own interests in her own way.  There is no way to grade that.  So I don’t feel guilty giving her A’s.  It is a hoop that the umbrella school is required to jump through, so we must as well.


Other Record Keeping

In addition to the above, there are a few things that I would like to do for record keeping.  I have many reasons for wanting to do more than is required.  I want back up if we are ever challenged with educational neglect charges. I want to be able to look back on our year and see what we have accomplished. I want to be able to assess where we are going in this journey and next steps we might take.  This will be in a form of a portfolio binder.  Below is a list and explanation of what goes into this binder.

*  The Curriculum Plan/Course Descriptions I talked about in Post#2 

*  The Home Education Plan I talked about in Post#2 

*  Resource Lists by Subject
o   I make these lists on Easybib.com.  I have a list for each subject.  As we use a resource I add it to this list. I put everything on these lists! It’s not just for books.  You add in the info for magazines, TV shows, websites and even fieldtrips.  There is an entry form for just about every resource type and it puts them in bibliography form automatically.  I will print these out at the end of the school year. Oh, and it’s free!

*  Monthly narrative summaries
o   I have a weekly planning form where I jot down our read-alouds, appointments, strewing and sharing plans, and notes about what we did each day.  
o   At the end of the month I sit down and write up, in narrative form, what we did over the past month.  I print this out.  Then in the margins I go through and label school subjects our activities fall into.

*  Then I have a section of work samples and pictures.

*  Test Report
o   I have decided to do a standardized test each year from now on.  This is not because I want the results.  If you ask me, testing is all about ranking how well kids take tests, not evaluation what they know.  I am doing a test to help my daughter gain test taking skills.  No matter what she does in life, taking tests will be part of it.  We are a test happy society.  She needs to learn and practice test-taking skills as well as get used to the process.

*  Year End Evaluation
o   This will be a narrative evaluation drawing from the monthly summaries.  Basically my goal here is to keep in touch with my daughters strengths, areas for growth and develop ideas for strewing and sharing for the next school year. Oh, and our “school year” is year round, July-June, because our learning is not confined to school activities or hours. 


So that’s our plan. If you have read this and you homeschool, I hope it has been helpful to you.  Feel free to use and modify any forms in these posts.  Thanks for reading. ;)

Wednesday, July 24, 2013

Homeschoolers Are Not Judging You



It never fails.  I meet someone new.  I’m at a dinner party, or maybe the line at Safeway.  My new acquaintance finds out we homeschool.  90% of the time their very next statement goes something like this…

“Wow, I could never be that patient!”

~ insert nervous laugh~ “I’d love to do that, but I think we would kill each other.”

Or other variations of “I could never homeschool” that includes some reference to patience, chaotic kids, needing “me-time”, finances, etc…
There is always a hint of defensiveness, or justification in the tone of these comments.

I laugh, nod politely, say something like, “Well, it’s not for everyone.” (Which I do believe) When I really want to scream, “I don't know you. You don't know me. I'm not judging you!” 

Why oh why, do you feel the need to justify to me the fact that you do not homeschool your kids?

Do you think I am judging you because you send your kids to school?
I’m not.  Our decision to homeschool is based on personal decisions and is not some sort of silent judgment on all those who choose school for their children.  It has nothing to do with you!

So please, you may keep these comments to yourself. If you can’t, then at least be honest with your comments. 

The truth is, it is a matter of willingness, not ability.  Homeschooling is not for everyone.  Not all parents are willing to spend that much time with their kids, challenge long held educational paradigms, make financial adjustments, and many other lifestyle modifications that homeschooling entails.  And that is fine.  I don’t pass judgment on your choices.  I don’t think that makes you a worse parent than me.   There are things I am not willing to do for my child!  For example, I hate driving long distances.  If there was some class or club she wanted to do and it is more than a 45 minute drive, I won’t do it. 

You may just think homeschooling is some crazy stupid idea. That’s OK with me too!

As parents, we are all charged with making the best decisions we can for our children.  All of our choices cannot and should not be the same.  We all need the freedom to make the choices we feel are best.


So the next time you meet a new family and find out they homeschool, say you think they are crazy, say you would never want to (not that you can’t) homeschool, say something supportive, ask questions or say nothing at all, because they are not judging you!

Friday, July 12, 2013

Writing a Curriculum Plan


*Series Intro*

*For the past 6 months or so I have been exploring the ins and outs of Relaxed Homeschooling (RHS) and Unschooling (UnS).  In that time I have come to see that my daughter NEEDS this type of learning and education if she is to be who she is meant to be.  Anything else will not support her full development.  My reason for coming up with any kind of plan at all is twofold. This school year we will be moving to a state in which we will be joining an umbrella school.  So, my task here is to come up with a relaxed plan that will meet the requirements of the umbrella school.  Secondly, a dear friend of mine in state that only requires an attendance record for homeschool statute compliance, was accused of educational neglect.  Having never tested her children, and not done much record keeping, it was difficult for her to prove that her children were in deed growing and learning as they should. So now I am a bit paranoid about the remote possibility of this happening to us. If it ever does, by some fluke chance, I will have this plan to back up our efforts.

I've decided to put our plan into a series of posts. Both as a reference for me in the future and with the hope that it might be of help to other homeschool moms! ;)

See all the entries in the series by clicking HERE*

Writing a Curriculum Plan - Part 2

Just when I get used to not thinking in terms school subjects, we are moving to a state were I must list subjects, have a plan for each subject and report grades and attendance twice a year.  (Grades? More on that in a later post).  If you are reading a biography about an Egyptian Pharaoh is that literature, history, science, or art? Guess what? It's all of them!  Life is not compartmentalized into subject boxes and learning isn't either.

The key here is to think in general terms of what you might do in each subject area. The best example I have seen of this is the Acme Academy Course of Study on Sandra Dodd's Website.  Go read it, I'll wait...

I adapted this and wrote one for us.  I was even sneaker and changed "will include" to "may include". That way I am not committing us to doing anything in particular.  Here is a link to the one I came up with. Feel free to download it and change it as you wish. 

Ok, so that was a really detailed plan that anyone would have a hard time challenging as a solid curriculum plan.  But I needed something much more practical. Something that I could go to that was more specific. So I came up with this.

Course Descriptions for 2013-2014

Math:
Student will review lower-level math fundamentals and gain skill in subjects such as geometry and pre-algebra corresponding to her ability.


Language Arts:
Student will gain skill in the areas of reading, writing, speaking and listening.  Methods used include: student and teacher chosen literature, writing within context of study topics and creative pursuits, discussing literature, and family read alouds.
Resources: The Library! ;), Don't Forget to Write for writing ideas, lot's of other ideas on my Writing Pinterest Board, this awesome blog series on Becoming a Writing Mentor to Your Child

Science:
Science will be addressed within the context of student interest.  Inquiry, reading, videos, fieldtrips, time in nature will all be employed in this area.
Resources: Lots of Youtube & other videos, hiking, maybe nature journaling, we also have a lot of science resource books around the house.  

Social Studies:
Social studies, history and geography will be addressed within the context of student interest.  Research, time-lines, biography, historical fiction, various texts, videos, and fieldtrips will all be employed in this area.
Resources: The Library again, All Through the Ages - A History through Literature Guide (Awesome!), The Mystery of History (MOH) - I use this as a read aloud a couple times a week and skip around, we usually don't do the activities.

Health & Physical Education:
Health and physical education is fully integrated as a part of daily living skills and participation in the wider community with an emphasis upon the physical activities that may be conducive to health and vigor of body and mind. Activities will include skiing, hiking and ice-skating
Resources: Our own 2 feet, a couple books on puberty

Fine Arts:
Student will develop her knowledge of art, music and drama through informal and structured methods in a variety of ways, including: attending concerts and plays, possible art classes, choral singing, listening to various styles of music, and studying fashion and design.
Resources: This will focus mainly on fashion. Her one big passion right now. Lots of Pinterest & Youtube! Sketch book & drawing utensils, we are looking for a choir/chorus to join and will go to concerts and plays.

Below is a basic plan for implementing the above:
  • We begin each day with me reading aloud. We have done this ever since La showed an interest in books. We usually pick these books together. We cover lots of classics this way.
  • After read aloud, we have what I call "sharing time" in my head, but never give it a label out load (I can just hear her complaining how "preschool" it sounds, LOL!). It really is a big kid version of preschool circle time. I just transition into it naturally. This is where I share something that I think is really cool. It could be a second read-aloud, a video, a game, anything really. These things may or may not have to do with her current interests, but it is something that I am genuinely interested in. She may or may not find it interesting, but many of her interests have been sparked this way in the past. I keep this pretty short, too. No longer than 20 minutes.  It's the one treachery thing I do and I don't do it everyday, but most days.
  • Strewing - This is basically providing resources that enhance current interests. No strings attached!  Please read this blog post series, The Art of Strewing or buy her ebook Here.  You can get it for $1.61! Totally worth it! 
  • We will do Life of Fred together 3 times a week. This is her idea and she asked me to hold her to it.  I can't say that she is really interested in math, but feels as though she needs to learn it.  She also said she wants a little more structure, so some what formal math 3x a week it is. 
  • After this she will work on whatever interests her. I made a list of "Things to do When You Can’t Think of Anything to Do"  (☜ click to view and download it) which she said is too long.  But it will be there if she just can't think of anything she wants to do. 
  • Each week La will write something, anything. She doesn't like to write.  If her pursuits don't naturally involve writing, I am going to require she writes something for me to review each week. (OK, so this is the second teachery thing I am doing) Right now she is agreeing to this. I am adding this requirement because she never writes and I am worried about her not gaining sufficient writing skill.  So, we'll see how this goes ...
  • I made a Weekly Summary Report (☜ click to view and download it) for her to fill out each week. It's pretty simple and I want her to start keeping her own records so she can take it over in the High School years. 

So that's the basics of our plan this year.  Right now it's as unschoolish as I am comfortable with.  I may loosen up even more as the year goes on.  We will see...  My next post will be about my plans for record keeping.  The left side of my brain really likes that topic! ;)

I added this post to iHomeschool Network's Not Back to School Blog Hop.  There you can check out how many other homeschoolers are approaching their own unique education!



Wednesday, July 10, 2013

Long Term Relaxed Homeschooling (RHS) Goals


*Series Intro*

*For the past 6 months or so I have been exploring the ins and outs of Relaxed Homeschooling (RHS) and Unschooling (UnS).  In that time I have come to see that my daughter NEEDS this type of learning and education if she is to be who she is meant to be.  Anything else will not support her full development.  My reason for coming up with any kind of plan at all is twofold. This school year we will be moving to a state in which we will be joining an umbrella school.  So, my task here is to come up with a relaxed plan that will meet the requirements of the umbrella school.  Secondly, a dear friend of mine in state that only requires an attendance record for homeschool statute compliance, was accused of educational neglect.  Having never tested her children, and not done much record keeping, it was difficult for her to prove that her children were in deed growing and learning as they should. So now I am a bit paranoid about the remote possibility of this happening to us. If it ever does, by some fluke chance, I will have this plan to back up our efforts.

I've decided to put our plan into a series of posts. Both as a reference for me in the future and with the hope that it might be of help to other homeschool moms! ;)

See all the entries in the series by clicking HERE*

Long Term Goals - Part One

Begin with the end in mind.  This is our starting point.  I think we all need to know a little about where we are going on this journey. What skills, knowledge, attributes, habits, etc... do what want your kids to realize before they leave your home? These are tough questions that we all must answer to have any type of path.  I highly recommend you get this little booklet titled, Relaxed Record Keeping by Mary Hood, Ph.D.  You can get it the ARCHERS website and lots of other great resources too.

I used her guidelines to come up with our own Long Term Goals.

Long-Term Home Education Goals

Values:
• Biblical values. We accomplish this through Bible reading,
discussion, problem solving together, and parental modeling.

Attitudes:
• Develop a life-long love of learning
• Enough organization to accomplish life goals
• Respect for others
• Perseverance in adversity
• Optimism

Habits:
• Cleanliness
• Finding out what you don’t know
• How to fill your time
• Getting work done when it’s needed
• Reading regularly
• Work on something you don't really like to achieve something
   you want
• Checking habits for results

Skills:
• Communication -reading, writing, speaking & listening
• Enough mathematic skills for her goals
• How to find out what you need to know
  and then finding it out
• Test taking skills
• Goal setting skills

Talents & Interests:
• Find out what these are
• Pursue them
• Learn to work hard and in depth at something you love
• Internships
• Lots of exposure to different things
• Have a way to earn income by the time she leaves the house

Knowledge:
• Mainly dictated by talents & interests
• Grounding in History
• Grounding in Basic Science

As you can see these broad and basic, yet how they are accomplished will be specific and individualized for La.  I hope that these goals will be tool for making future plans and decisions.